Something very profound happened to me recently.
**Men, if you’re reading this, I’m getting ready to talk about boobs and bras, but stay with me. I promise there’s a message! **
I needed to get a strapless bra for a dress and none of the ones I had felt comfortable. So I went to a department store and got fitted by an actual specialist. She knew stuff. We got into the dressing room, measured me and came back with two bras to try on. I looked at the size...It was a 40DD!!! Ain’t no way, I thought. Not only was the size BIGGER, but the cup was 3 times as big as my “current size!” I surrendered to the process and tried the bra on. It fit like a glove. It was like it was made just for me. I kept staring in the mirror because I felt and looked good! I looked at my old bra, a 38C, which I had worn uncomfortably FOR YEARS, and took a sigh of relief.
How many times have we stayed too long or tried to fit in somewhere and it was just uncomfortable? Our Spirit was tapping us saying, “let’s go” yet you stayed?
Why is this?
Why do we stay or keep doing?
Why do we dishonor ourselves in this way?
Most often, it's because we are operating out of a negative core belief.
Core beliefs of not good, not good enough, unworthy, undeserving, or unimportant.
When we believe those things about ourselves, we create experiences where we ignore our own intuition, we disregard what we truly want, and we sacrifice ourselves.
We don't have to do this. EVER.
We don't have to stay in places, situations, or relationships that are uncomfortable. We have a divine right to believe better and to shift.
When we start believing better about ourselves, we will honor ourselves at all times, in all situations, and under all circumstances.
Promise me this.
Moving forward, you'll stop trying to fit yourself into tight spaces, or spaces that are uncomfortable. Recognize that you have grown and it's ok to shift and move on.
When you believe better, you'll be better, you'll do better, and you'll have better!
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